The Best Sex Toys for Gay Men

Right, guys, let's talk about sex toy pleasure! The straight sex toy market always seems to hog most of the limelight, and we feel sex toys for gay men deserve more attention. So, through this rather incredible guide, we are going to take a look at the best sex toys for gay men and reveal a few must-have gems.

It's hard to believe that sex toys were once a taboo subject, and while they were not quite whispered about in the corners of dimly lit bars, they were something of a risqué subject at one point. But not anymore!

In this new and unashamed age of shared erotic pleasure, kind of male sex toy are not just accessories -  they are an essential part of the gay experience. Use them wisely, and you will venture into a whole new world of sensual ecstasy. You might even wonder how you ever managed without them.

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From solo nights indoors to steamy sessions with your partner, gay men's sex toys and gay couple sex toys are here to spice up your experiences and add a whole new layer of excitement to your bedroom antics. Or kitchen table antics. Maybe sofa antics. Heck, back seat of the car antics!

So, whether you're a seasoned gay men's sex toy enthusiast with a closet full of dildos for men or just dipping your toes into these waters for the first time, this guide is your ticket to the most exhilarating, satisfying, and downright fun sex toys out there. We have rounded up 18 of the best sex toys for gay men so you can enjoy the toys that make us feel like the kings we truly are.

Alright, enough waffle. Let’s check out those toys!

(In no particular order, by the way.)

1) Prostate Massager

Prostate massagers provide a unique kind of joy, specifically engineered to stimulate the key pleasure point of our prostate gland - an often underused and overlooked pleasure point.

Get it right, and these toys always lead to intense, memorable climaxes through a whole new level of sexual enjoyment.

If you have never truly experimented with prostate pleasure before, you are missing out. With various designs available, each prostate massager offers unique gratification, enhancing the sexual experience through different sizes, diameters, and textures. They are, quite frankly, one of the best sex toys for men available.

2) Glass Butt Plugs

As quite a pretty-looking object, glass butt plugs combine the basic functionality of erotic fun with a certain level of visual appeal. They just look nice. Their smooth, firm texture offers a different feel compared to more conventional materials. Glass butt plugs are also perfect for guys who enjoy temperature play.

One quite huge bonus with glass anal toys is the hygienic nature of their construction (with glass being such an easy material to clean), which adds to their general appeal while remaining body-safe.

These sex toys for men combine practical use with a more aesthetic edge and are a unique and gratifying experience if the technique is done correctly. We are confident you will have fun practicing, though.

3) Anal Training Kits

Anal training kits are ideal for people who are new to anal play. With different plugs of increasing size, they allow for a comfortable and gradual introduction to anal pleasure. They are a must-have for guys in the early stages of experimentation.

The great thing about anal trainer kits is that they transform the learning process into a more enjoyable journey, helping guys familiarize themselves with various sensations at a steady, comfortable pace.

4) Double-Ended Dildos

Next, the old reliable double-ended dildo is perfect for mutual enjoyment. Designed for couples (obviously), they offer a way to experience being both the giver and receiver simultaneously: a fine win-win, you will probably agree.

Double enders are ideal for gay couples looking to deepen their bond and share in the joy of simultaneous dildo pleasure - these are gay men's sex toys for the less selfish among us! Like ‘normal’ dildos, these double dildos are available in various sizes to suit different preferences.

5) Penis Vibrators

Penis vibrators are a thrilling, highly sensual must-have in your collection of gay men's toys. This unique vibrator is perfectly fine for both gay and straight men and increases the pleasure of orgasms so much that you will never want to take it off!

Whether it’s through a vibrating masturbator sleeve (that focuses on the penis head) or a ring vibrator (that enhances scrotal stimulation), our massive selection of penis vibrators will appeal to all comers… no pun intended!

6) Bondage Rope

Beginner bondage equipment is great for anyone interested in exploring restraint and trust in a safe setting. They are useful in many ways as the perfect tool for beginners and experienced users. Combine with cuffs, mouth gags, and blindfolds for an added erotic charge.

Be careful, though - safewords are a good idea, and only ever use ropes with people you know. Ropes and one-night stands are never a sensible combination. Stick to less vulnerable gay men's toys if you are not too acquainted with your partner.

7) Cock Rings

Another classic of the ages, cock rings are designed to enhance endurance and sensation by wearing around the base of the penis, intensifying erections and orgasms by restricting blood flow. Again, simple but genius.

Our cock rings are available in various materials and styles, like vibrating cock rings for men and vibrating prostate cock rings. As one of the biggest-selling gay men's toys on the market, cock rings are popular with straight guys, too.

8) Bullet Vibrators

Vibrating bullet sex toys are typically for women, buy it is one of the best sex toys for gay men, but it takes a Sexpert to tell you that! Perfect for scrotal stimulation and nipple play, explore your lovers body (or your own) with these tiny vibrating sex toys.

Bullet vibrators are compact, powerful, and versatile, perfect for adding extra stimulation during solo or partnered play. Their small size allows for more precise pleasure targeting - a laser-focused tool for checking out those erogenous zones.

9) Male Strap-Ons

One of the essentials of gay couples' sex toys, male strap-ons allow for greater diversity in penetrative play. They are handy for anyone dealing with erectile difficulties or looking to experiment with size and endurance.

You have probably experimented with a strap-on for men at some point, but if you haven't, they provide a great way to ensure everyone involved in the fun enjoys the experience.

10) Masturbators

Masturbators are used for both erotic pleasure and enhancing orgasms. Suction masturbators imitate a blow job and apply suction to the penis for sexual pleasure.

Penis pumps also work in similar fashion, by creating a solid vacuum around the base of the penis, they draw blood flow down into the shaft, which usually leads to fuller, more solid erections. Suction masturbators are a more sedate albeit pleasureful choice for gay men shopping for sex toys online.

It's not unusual to find yourself with twice the usual size in some cases, but remember, be very responsible with a penis pump. They are not really dangerous sex toys, but if you get too carried away with the pumping, you could wind up with some severe damage to your most prized asset!

11) Remote Control Anal Plugs

Remote control anal plugs bring an exciting twist to solo and partner play for gay men. These clever little gay men's toys are perfect for anyone who relishes a spontaneous thrill, giving different levels of intensity and patterns.

In a more subdued, calming, sensual mood? Keep it dialed down low, sit back, and relax. If you're feeling more adventurous, well, then crank it up!

Many guys use them privately, but they can also add an extra spark to your relationship. Either way, our remote control anal plugs are a thrilling, fun addition to any gay men's toys… Discreet yet powerful sensations, guaranteed!

12) Anal Beads

Another one of the classic gay men's toys, anal beads for men provide a lovely rhythmic pleasure, designed so that each bead heightens with intensity and anticipation. They are a staple in the gay men's toys collection, promising a unique, secretive thrill.

13) Anal Douches

Rounding things up with a more practical suggestion, and while not one of the more exciting gay men's sex toys, an anal douche is a must-have for most bedrooms. Designed for cleanliness and general confidence in anal play, they help in preparing for a more comfortable and hygienic experience.

Again, they are more of a practical addition to this list of best sex toys for men, but if you prioritize preparation and comfort, you need to think about keeping one nearby.

Alternative & Quirky Picks

Take electrostimulation toys, for example. These electrifying gadgets add a thrilling buzz to your play if you fancy a little extra excitement. Fantasy-inspired toys are also picking up something of a niche following lately, with imaginative dildos and butt plugs that will help you change things up a little: ideal for when your imagination needs a little help.

Temperature-responsive toys offer sensations that shift with their warmth or coolness, adding a clever little twist to your enjoyment, and let's not forget inflatable toys and sex dolls!

The days of buying a sex doll just to pass around a stag or hen event are long gone; the latest creations have stepped up a gear or two in the quality department.

1. Sex Dice

Sex dice introduce a fantastic element of chance, luck, and excitement to your intimate encounters. Rolling the dice can suggest new and unexpected ways to connect, adding spontaneity and a sense of play to the bedroom.

The sheer unpredictable nature of sex dice brings a hilarious tone to your erotic fun - and is a great way to avoid the predictable. Are you stuck in the same old routine? Grab the dice and see what fate has in store for you…. Amazing entertainment!

2. Sex Swings

What is possibly our favorite accessory on this list of sex toys for gay men, erotic swings add an exciting and almost wild flavor to the bedroom. They look pretty awesome, too.

Designed to facilitate new positions and experiences, sex swings offer the thrill of experimenting with different depths and angles in a comfortable, safe, and very supportive way.

Perfect for adventurous couples, sex swings are an excellent tool for increasing physical closeness while also exploring new aspects of intimacy. Did we say they also look pretty cool?

3. Clone Kits

Looking for a 24/7 version of your loved ones ‘special parts’? Clone kits provide a personal touch to sex toys for men by allowing you to create an inch-perfect custom replica of your or your partner's anatomy - an absolute godsend for anyone whose partner works away for long periods.

4. Edible Body Paints

Do you ever find yourself looking at your partner, thinking, “he looks good enough to eat”? No? Maybe you need some edible body paints! Adding a touch of artsy creativity to the foreplay, edible body paint will turn your partner's body into a delicious canvas for sensual art.

These sex accessories for men might seem like a gimmick, but they add a playful element to the intimacy, and you might be surprised how much you enjoy them. Exploration and enjoyment through taste and touch? What's not to love about that? Nom Nom Nom…

5. Tube Love Gloves

Tube love gloves are designed for one simple reason: the enhancement of manual stimulation (although they can also be used in partnered sessions). With various textures and sensations, tube love gloves take the experience beyond what's possible with just hands. A simple yet effective addition to anyone's collection.

Embrace and enjoy!

From the sleek and sophisticated to the more daring, bold, and adventurous, we've got every taste and fantasy covered on this list. One or two might be a little ‘out there,’ but variety is as limitless as our imaginations, right?

And remember, don't ever be afraid to explore, experiment, and embrace your deepest, most funky desires! Traditional sex will always be a fantastic experience, but if you allow your imagination to wander and get a little wild with some gay couple's anal sex toys, you can add a whole new level of fun to the bedroom.

At The Adult Toy Shop, we have everything you could want to liven things up in the bedroom, so don't forget to head over and check out our full range of gay men’s toys.

Now go have some fun!