Top Bondage Gear From My Personal Collection

I chose my current apartment, primarily for the amazingly large bedroom with a view, and walk in closet. It’s not that I’m obsessed with clothing. I just need plenty of room for the collection of BDSM gear that I’ve gathered over the last few years.

See, in my early twenties I started dating a slightly older guy. He was very experienced in bed, and treated me like a queen. He also made me feel so amazing about myself that I became willing to explore the kinkier side of my personality. We parted ways amicably, but I still have all of these amazing playthings.

Have you ever wanted to explore bondage with your partner? You should! I’ll help you get started. Take a look at some of my best bondage sex toys. I’ll even share a few dirty little tidbits on why they are my favorite bondage toys.

My Favorite 4-Way Bed Restraints

My very first, BDSM experience was getting tied to the bed. I highly recommend it. I think it’s a very safe way to experience bondage, and to let your partner dominate you. At the same time, it feels safe and comfortable. I think BDSM restraints are absolutely awesome. They’re easy to bring out for fun, and to pack away discreetly. The restraints are very comfortable.

I have the most fun with these during sensation play, and light discipline sessions. Imagine being tied down, and having someone run a feather all over your naked body until you squirm. It’s a real turn-on to not know what happens next. Also, a nice spanking followed by oral sex and deep, hard-thrusting intercourse is pretty amazing too!

Check out the price on these restraints as well! They’re less than 30 bucks! People pay hundreds of dollars for straps that aren’t nearly this quality. Seriously, give these a try. You’re sure to love them.

These Neck And Wrist Restraints Make me Wet

I’m not a fan of choking play, but I do love the sensation of something just a bit tight around my neck. I also love having my wrists bound. That’s why I get so breathlessly horny the minute my lover helps me into these Neck and Wrist restraints. 

These babies are comfortable, easy to use, and adjustable. You can use them to restrain in front, or around back. In fact, my lover and I have used these to get ourselves into some very kinky positions.

Do I Have Handcuffs in My Collection?

Heck yes I do! I collect them like some other girls collect jewelry. You see, handcuffs come in a variety of colors, sizes, and patterns. I have ankle and thigh cuffs. I even have a few pairs of metal cuffs. Out of all the handcuffs I’ve gathered in the last few years, my favorite has to be these pink bondage cuffs. I love the girly color. These might also be the most comfortable, durable pair of cuffs I own.

You see, when I’m involved in very rough play, things can be a bit intense. Imagine, thrashing around in the middle of an intense orgasm. A girl needs a pair of handcuffs that can hold up! Not only can these babies take a bit of abuse, they never leave any sort of marks around my wrists. 

Do I Enjoy Being Spanked?

True story about my experience with a flogger whip! I was the most apprehensive about trying spanking paddles and BDSM crops. It just seemed so scary to me. I mean, I don’t have a lot of tolerance for pain. Still, my lover would get so turned on by the idea. In fact, we’d watch porn with spanking themes, and he’d get so besides himself he’d end up going down begging me to go down on him while he watched.

Eventually, he talked me into some OTK action. He promised to be gentle, and he was. In fact, it was me who asked him to go harder. As it turns out, I really do like to be spanked, and the harder the better. Paddles Whips And Ticklers are a must-have now.

On the other hand, I’d prefer not to have the bruising that can come with hands or wooden paddles. Instead, I love the intense sting of a good flogger. It provides the perfect sting without any lasting evidence. If you’re interested, I’d definitely urge you to start with something like the Please Sir Flogger. It’s absolutely exquisite and one of the best BDSM whips ever to grace my BDSM spanking sex toys collection.

Do I Dress Up?

Honestly, I’ve never really been into bondage apparel. But, I know people have fun with dress-up, and I’m totally cool with that.  That doesn’t mean I don’t love an amazing pair of panties.

In fact, I think I may have found the best pair of panties ever. Check these out. These hot, remote control panties are sexy red with ties on the side. That’s not even the best part. These panties have a special pocket to hold a remote control, egg style vibrator. My current boyfriend will have me put these on in the morning, then spend the entire day turning the vibrator on and off to watch my squirm as I try to maintain control.

Check out the remote! It’s a ring, that slips over his finger. All he has to do is push a little button, and adjust the speed. Last night, I was cleaning the apartment, and he was teasing me so  much. He’d bring me just to orgasm.

Then, he’d turn off the vibrator, and start watching television again. Eventually I couldn’t take anymore. I’m embarrassed to say it, but I pretty much tackled him and rode him until we both came.

Have I Ever Used a Sex Machine?

I do not own a sex machine, and I have honestly never tried one. Would I ever consider it? Yes, I would! If the opportunity came up. But, the truth is that these things cost hundreds of dollars. I have student loans! Those two things don’t mix. Besides, an entire machine???? Come on! That’s a bit extra! 

Instead, I get a bit creative. If you have a metal chair, and a Major Dick, you can create something that you can ride all night long. There’s no need to buy bulky machine. I just suction it into place, hop on, and enjoy! You can do the same with smooth, weight bearing surface.

Do I Put Stuff in My Butt?

As a matter of fact I do. However, I am not big on size kinks. So, I prefer to keep things a bit on the small and fun size. Still, there’s nothing quite like being tied up, spanked, then having this Vibra Plug pushed deep into you while you squirm and moan. At least I love it!

Nipple Play is More Fun Than I Ever Imagined!

Once again, this is another area where I just thought I wouldn’t be that interested. Honestly, during vanilla stuff, my nipples just weren’t that important. Yeah, some guys were interested. I was certainly happy to give them access. It just wasn’t exciting for me.

At least it wasn’t until I was introduced to nipple clamps. Why do people love nipple clamps? Let me tell you that these changed everything!

Remember how I said I liked things around my neck? Well, take a look at this set of Collar and Nipple Clamps. I literally have these hanging up in my closet. These babies can be adjusted to give the lightest squeeze, or for a very intense pinch. 

Of course, nipple toys work best on erect nipples. That’s why I keep erect nipple gel on hand. They enhance sensation, and keep your nipples hard for action.

Making Your Own Collection of Bondage Supplies

The products I mentioned above are things that I absolutely love. However, this doesn’t begin to describe my entire collection. What can I say. Some women collect makeup or figurines. I collect kink toys and have nothing but good things to say abouta good beginner bondage set.

I didn’t get all of these starter BDSM toys at once though. I’ve been collecting for several years. I used to hit up sex shops, mail order catalogs, Amazon, and more. You could say I put a lot of miles in creating such a great collection.

You don’t have to do what I did. Instead, find a great online resource for bondage toys. You’ll be able to browse around, or search for what you like. As you do this, keep aesthetics in mind. No, perhaps you don’t need pretty colors, or supple textures. However, I can tell you these things make a big difference when it comes to enjoying sexual experiences.

Finally, you don’t have to spend tons of money. No, you shouldn’t buy flimsy toys, especially for bondage and discipline. It’s just that I’ve seen people spend hundreds of dollars for a single toy. That’s just not necessary. Find nicely priced toys that you can try. Later, if you really love something, you can consider upgrading to a fancier version of it.

Caring For Your Toys

I’ve had some of my favorite bondage toys and best ball gags for several years now. Many of them endure some pretty rough treatment, especially my restraints. The reason my bondage equipment lasts for so long is that I take great care of it. 

First, everything gets cleaned according to the instructions provided, or the material it’s made of. I take the time to carefully untangle things. I regularly replace any batteries. Vibrators and dildos get wrapped in clean towel and stored. I hang bondage gear in my closet. By taking these steps, I ensure that everything in my BDSM collection is in top condition for a long time.

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