How to Deepthroat Like a Pro - The Ultimate Guide

Everyone can give a blowjob - better or worse, but there’s no secret to it - you just put your partner’s penis in your mouth and suck on it as if your life depended on it until he cums.

Sure, you can use dick sucking blowjob spray, get creative with your tongue, hands and fingers in his nether regions to make this experience even more pleasurable, but let’s be honest - it’s all like a smoke screen for a wannabe magician who’s trying to add some appeal to a common and mediocre magic trick.

Do you want to blow your partner’s mind… and everything else in between? Learn to deepthroat like a pro - it’s one of the most desired oral sex techniques men frequently fantasize about.

Let’s not waste any time - read our guide and discover the best deepthroat tips, including the most important one - how to deepthroat without gagging. Soon, you’ll be ready to surprise your partner with the best oral session he’s ever had!

How to Get Rid of Gag Reflex

Ah, the dreaded gag reflex! If you’re worried about getting your gag reflex under control - we've got you. It’s a simple case of desensitizing your throat and tonsils to new and unusual sensations - such as having your partner’s penis touching the back of your throat.

Getting rid of your gag reflex will take some time and effort, but it’s perfectly doable. You can use your finger, but let’s be honest - only something phallic-shaped will give you the right sensation you’ll face in a real-life situation. For that, we recommend a regular, realistic dildo or a suction cup dildo for a hands-free experience - just make sure it’s clean before you put it into action.

So, have your trusty dildo at the ready? Here’s what you can do, step by step:

1. Slowly place your dildo in your mouth and move it gradually towards the back of your throat. Eventually, it will trigger your gag reflex.
2. Consciously hold the dildo in place, try to suppress your gag reflex without pulling it out.
3. Keep breathing through your nose while relaxing your throat at the same time. Practice makes perfect - you may gag every now and then, but keep trying!
4. Hold your dildo at the back of your throat without moving it in or out for up to 10 seconds.
5. Keep practicing - if you want to deepthroat like a pro, you need to train regularly to make progress and desensitize your throat effectively. You don’t have to do it every day - 2-3 times a week should be enough for starters.
6. When you feel you can control your gag reflex better, time to take it up a notch and imitate a real-life situation - slowly move your dildo in and out of your mouth while keeping it deep down so that it keeps triggering and brushing off your gag reflex.

We said it once, and we’ll say it again - you will control your gag reflex, and not the other way around - but you need to practice regularly. The more you practice with a dildo, the easier it will be to get used to a real penis.

Size Does Matter, After All?

“Too big, too small, size does matter after all,” - sings Till Lindemann, the lead vocalist of the world-famous German band Rammstein. Is he right, though? The answer to this question, as you might expect, is “It depends.”

“It depends on what, exactly?” - and now, we have the exact answer to your follow-up question!

Obviously, a smaller penis will be easier to deepthroat. By “smaller,” we mean both the length and width. It can still trigger your gag reflex, but it should be easier to overcome. After all, a smaller penis won’t fill out the entirety of your mouth, and you won’t feel it as deep down.

And if your partner is particularly well-endowed?

Well, if you’re a newbie, you may find it challenging to deepthroat like a pro on your first try. But who said you have to be great at it right from the start? Anyone can learn to deepthroat, and your partner will definitely appreciate your effort. We can assure you that with each session, you’ll only keep getting better!

How to Deepthroat Like a Pro - Step-by-Step Instructions

How to deepthroat without gagging? Look no further, we have step-by-step instructions for you right here. If you follow our tips regarding the desensitization of your gag reflex, this should feel like a walk in the park!

1. Set some ground rules. If you’re new to deepthroating, you might be feeling self-conscious and unsure about your skills. It’s understandable, and your partner should know it, too! If you’re the giver, ask your partner to give you full control over the process. This way, you’ll get familiar with the action and ease into it at your own pace.
2. Use a lubricant. Dry penis means friction, and friction means pain and discomfort. Avoid it by applying some lube to your partner’s penis before you begin.
3. Align your positions. Your partner doesn’t have to stand, and you don’t have to kneel or sit at the edge of the bed – after all, you’re not shooting a porn flick. To make things easier, you can lie on your bed with your head hanging slightly off the edge and then ask your partner to lean over you. This should bring his penis to the same level as your throat - and an aligned position of your mouth and throat should help you relax your throat muscles, making the whole experience easier for you.
4. Start slowly. Don’t rush - you can start off with a regular blow job to warm up yourself and your partner. And when you’re ready - take your partner’s penis deep into your mouth.
5. Find a rhythm. It may take some time until you feel comfortable enough with your partner’s penis deep down your throat. But when you get there, let your partner thrust gently and slowly.
6. Don’t forget to breathe. Time your breathing with the retraction of your throat. Breathe in and out through your nose and relax your muscles. You can take breaks if you find it difficult at first but don’t panic - you can come up with a signal or a gesture that would indicate you need to stop for a moment.

Best Deep Throat Tips

Getting rid of your gag reflex is a great start if you want to deepthroat like a pro. However, you might be wondering if there’s anything else you can do - no, not to give your partner an experience he’ll never forget - but to make yourself more comfortable in this situation.

Of course, there is! We’ll let you in on a secret, so read on.

Lube Up

We already talked about using a lubricant while performing a deepthroat. Let’s dive in even deeper because not everyone is aware of the importance of lube.

Can you use any lubricant? Well, yes and no. Any lube is better than no lube, but your decision regarding the type can make or break your deepthroat experience.

If you want to make it more pleasant to you, opt for a flavored blowjob lube. Choose a flavor of your liking, and you’ll definitely enjoy the additional sense of taste.

Is there a lube you shouldn’t use for deepthroating? Actually, yes - experts advise against using numbing lubricants.

You might be tempted to use one in order to control your gag reflex better. A high-quality numbing lube will do what it promises to do - it will desensitize your throat. However, it will also prevent you from feeling your bodily reactions. As a result, you’ll be unlikely to adjust to your body limits, and when the numbing agent wears off, your throat will feel extremely raw.

Fix Your Make-Up

This one may not be that obvious. However, since we’re giving away our pro tips, we simply had to share it with you.

You never know when you’ll be in the mood to deepthroat your partner. Sometimes, he and you could be up for a quickie, even though you’re in full make-up and ready to leave for work or a party.

Here’s the thing. Deepthroating can give you physical reactions - the gag reflex is one of them. Another one would be your eyes tearing up when he’s deep down your throat, and you feel him with every fiber of your being, doing your best to make him cum harder than ever before.

If you’re going really, really deep and hard on him, your eyes are very likely to water - this happens to both deepthroat pros and newbies. Supposing you’re wearing a non-fuck-proof mascara, your make-up will be ruined, and you’ll have to make yourself presentable again.

Your partner will love him a good deepthroat, whether it’s planned or not. Regardless, set aside 15 to 20 minutes to fix your hair and make-up afterward - otherwise, you might end up fashionably late.

No Need to Swallow

If you ever got lost in the depths of the internet, chances are you’ve seen this meme. No worries if it’s your first time - also, we have great news for those of you who absolutely can’t relate to this raccoon.

Not everyone likes to swallow - some might not like the taste and texture of semen, and some might find the whole sensation simply off-putting.

Let’s recap what we’ve said already - when you deepthroat your partner, his penis goes deep down your throat (duh). But here’s the best part - because it’s so deep down, he won’t finish in your mouth, meaning you won’t have to expose your taste buds to his love juice.

If you manage to give your man the best deepthroat of his life and make him finish down your throat, we promise you, it’s going to feel completely different for both of you. Your partner will be on cloud (sixty) nine, and you won’t even taste how that felt for him.

On the other hand, if you don’t mind swallowing your partner’s cum, you can always let him finish in your mouth. We believe that when it comes to sex, communication is key, and he’s going to be euphoric either way.

Why Can’t I Deepthroat?

Listen, we’re not miracle-makers, and we definitely don’t want to make false promises. We’ll keep it real and honest with you here, so we just have to drop this bomb - not everyone will be able to deepthroat, no matter how many articles they read (or videos they watch).

There is a very small percentage of people with an overactive gag reflex. No matter what they do, it simply never goes away, and it can make a regular blow job near impossible to give.

If you’re one of the unlucky few, well, there’s nothing you can do about it. You probably heard about throat-numbing sprays, but we don’t recommend using them. Any type of pain your body produces - including your gag reflex - is a natural way of your organism telling you something’s not right, and you shouldn’t ignore it.

Another reason why you might be unable to deepthroat is because your partner’s penis is too wide or your mouth is too small to let it past your teeth - and again, there’s nothing you can do about the size of your throat.

The Final Word

And just like that, we crossed the finish line. With all the theoretical basics covered, you’re now ready to start gaining some practical knowledge in this matter.

Start by getting your gag reflex under control. When you feel you’re ready for the real thing, go for it and surprise your partner in the best way possible! If you haven’t talked about you deepthroating him, he’ll be in for a real treat, and he’s going to love it.

If you want to become an irresistible lover, check out our blog for more must-read sex tips. And if you want to spice up your sex life, we might have something in our store that will do the trick.