How to Use a Couples Vibrator: Pro Tips for Pleasure
Looking to add a little extra spice to your sex life? While we tend to overthink these things, often reaching around for something wild and wacky to shake things up, in reality, all you need is something like a couples vibrator.
You might be surprised how much a simple, vibrator designed for couples can improve your bedroom antics. But how do couples vibrators work, exactly? In this short blog post, we will reveal everything you need to know with tips, tutorials, techniques and maintenance advice.
Join us as we walk through how to use couples vibrators and why they’ve become such a popular addition to the world of intimacy!
What Is a Couples Vibrator?
U-shaped (also known as C-shaped) couples vibrators are among the most common toys for him & her. For the sake of clarity, we shall stick with calling them U-shaped here, but depending on how you hold them, you’ll sometimes see them referred to as C-shaped. Either way, these vibrators are worn during regular penetrative sex between a woman and man, creating magnificent added sensations for both parties.
Basically, the smaller end of the vibrator is inserted into the vagina, while the larger end rests outside, providing clitoral stimulation. This external vibration is especially helpful since many vulva owners need direct clitoral contact to reach orgasm.
Shared Play
Once the vibrator is in place, the penis can be inserted alongside it, offering added girth and shared stimulation for both partners. The combination of the vibrator’s pulse and the feeling of penetration can make the experience even more intense and pleasurable.
But these sex toys aren’t entirely for couples - you can also use them for solo play. The unique design allows for hands-free use, so once it’s inserted, your hands are free to explore other erogenous zones that require a little attention… or just relax and enjoy the ride!
They are versatile sex toys that can be used for foreplay routines, during sex, or even just enjoying it solo. Whatever your desire, a U-shaped vibrator could be a perfect addition to your toy collection and is one of the most popular sex toys in our collection.
Now, let’s take a look at how to use a couples vibrator for added verve.
How to Use a U-Shaped Couples Vibrator
At first glance, using a U-shaped couples vibrator may seem a little intimidating if it’s your first time. But don’t worry - once you get the hang of it, it’s actually quite easy to use and almost guarantees orgasm. Like any new experience, it might take a couple of tries before you find the rhythm that works best for you, but you should pick it up fairly quickly.
Here’s a basic step-by-step guide on how to use the vibrator with your partner.
How to Use Couples Vibrator: Step 1
Test the vibrations!
Before jumping into the fun, it’s a good idea to test the vibrator outside your body to get a feel for the different vibration settings. So, start by placing it against your hand or other body parts to figure out which levels and patterns feel best.
Remember, some of the better vibrators have stronger vibrations than you might expect, so testing first helps avoid any surprises.
If you’re new to using vibrators, you may want to turn them on before inserting them (just to allow your body to adjust to the sensations). This is especially important if you’re not used to vibrational stimulation. Easing in slowly can be helpful to make sure everything feels comfortable and pleasurable.
Step 2
Lubricate!
Using plenty of sex toy lube is an absolute must with any sex toy, especially a U-shaped couples vibrator. Apply lubricant to the smaller end of the toy before inserting it into the vagina. Once inserted, adjust it slightly until it sits comfortably, and the vibrations hit just the right spots.
Water-based lubricants are your best choice here. These work with all materials and won't react with your toy, unlike silicone-based lubes, which could damage your vibrator. Ensuring you have enough lube will help make insertion and movement more enjoyable.
Step 3
Introduce your partner!
After inserting the vibrator and getting comfortable with it, it’s time for your partner to enter the fray. At this stage, they will insert their penis alongside the vibrator, so it’s important to use plenty of lubricants to make this easier. The added girth from the vibrator can create a fuller sensation, so take things slow and make sure everyone’s comfortable.
A good starting position is always going to be missionary, with the person wearing the vibrator on their back and the penetrating partner right on top. From here, you can experiment with different speeds and movements to figure out what feels the best. As always, communicating well with your partner is going to be vital here as you explore these new sensations together and figure things out.
Cleaning Up
Since this is a toy shared with a partner, proper hygiene is even more important than usual to keep it clean and safe for future use. Specialist sex toy cleaners are convenient and affordable, although most vibes can be cleaned with mild soap and warm water. Whatever your chosen method, be sure to rinse it thoroughly, let it air dry, or pat it dry with a lint-free cloth before storing it away.
Regular cleaning after each use will make a huge difference to the condition of the sex toy and will almost certainly help it last much longer. To be extra certain, always check the manufacturer’s instructions for any special cleaning requirements specific to your toy (there usually aren't, but take a look anyway).
Making the Most of Your Couples Vibrator
While learning how to use any sex toy can take some practice, finding the right positions and movements is all part of the fun. It’s perfectly normal for the vibrator to shift or slip out of place in some positions, so don’t hesitate to experiment and adjust to what feels right for you and your partner.
Many couples find that certain positions - like standing or using a pillow for arched support - can make the vibrator stay in place better. Placing a pillow under your hips, for example, can offer extra support, helping the vibrator hit the right spots while keeping it secure. Some people even find that standing positions work well with these vibrators, so don’t feel restricted to the bed!
Fun Outside the Bedroom?
Many U-shaped vibrators come with remote controls, meaning the fun isn't restricted to the bedroom. If you’re feeling super adventurous, you can even wear a wearable vibrator under your clothes for a little extra excitement while out and about. Giving your partner control over the remote can turn an ordinary night out (or trip to the supermarket) into something much more thrilling!
Try it - you might be surprised how much fun it is. Of course, always be respectful of your surroundings: discreet fun is possible without making those other people at the bus stop waiting for the number 65 feel slightly uncomfortable.
Take It to the Shower
Since many of today’s vibrators are waterproof, you can easily add them to your shower or bath routine for something a little different. But how do couples vibrators work in the wet?
Simple! Just keep some extra lube on hand (water washes it away quickly, of course) and get to it in the shower, bath, pool, or hot tub, just as you would the bedroom.
To be safe, always double-check whether your vibrator is waterproof before bringing it into the bath or shower, and look out for toys that have an IPX7 rating, which means they can handle being submerged in water for up to 30 minutes.
Bottom Line
Now that you know how to use couple vibrator, just go ahead and experiment. There are no rules here - just dive straight in and get to work testing out different positions and vibration settings. In no time, you will easily find what works best for both of you.
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FAQ
How do couples vibrators work?
U-shaped vibrators are designed to be worn during penetrative sex, providing stimulation to both partners through vibrations. They enhance sensations for the wearer and their partner simultaneously.
How to use a couples vibrator for the first time?
Start by testing the vibrations, use plenty of lube, and insert the vibrator before penetration. Communicate with your partner to find the best position and rhythm for both of you.
Are couples vibrators easy to use?
Yes, once you get the hang of it. Follow basic steps such as lubing the toy, adjusting its position, and taking things slow with your partner.
Can I use it solo?
Yes, they can be used for solo play as well. Insert the smaller end, and let the hands-free vibrations enhance your experience while stimulating other areas.
How do they work in different positions?
These vibes can be used in various positions, like missionary or standing. Experiment with positions and movement to find what works best for both partners.
