How to Use a Pocket Pussy: Step by Step Instructions
Last Updated on July 25, 2024
Is there really a best way to use a pocket pussy? The simple steps for using sex toys for guys seem so self explanatory. Insert dick, thrust, cum, clean, done. The reality is that there are many tips on how to use a pocket pussy to make your experience more enjoyable, more realistic and comfortable.
That’s a shame, because these really are amazing masturbation aids for men. That's why men buy a pocket pussy, easily the most popular sex toy for men in the world. Men using a pocket pussy enjoy their orgasm more because the ultra realistic styles feel and look just like the real thing.
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If you've ever wondered how a pocket pussy works, this users guide will answer any question you've ever asked. It's the most complete pocket pussy tutorial that explains how pocket pussies work, instructions on how to clean and store them properly to keep the toy soft & supple for a long, long time.
When it comes to products that enhance the self-pleasuring experience, there’s a lot of focus on products for women. So much so that it’s easy to think that men are relegated to their hands, and a bottle of lube.
These handy realistic male masturbators allow you to enjoy solo, or mutual masturbation sessions like you never have before. Of course, what you get out of your pocket pussy sex toy depends on how you use it, and how you take care of it.
That’s why we’ve created this users guide and how-to instruction manual! Here, we will go over the different types, how to select one that works for you, how to take care of your sex toy, and how to use your device to get the most pleasurable experience.
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How to Use a Pocket Pussy - Instructions:
- Lubricate the top half of your penis with water based lube.
- Push lubricant inside the first few inches of the opening with your finger.
- Twist your erection into the opening until the head is inside. Don't pull on the opening with your fingers or it can tear!
- Stroke your cock slowly. Don't pull out too far or your head will pop out and you'll have to ease it in again.
- As the tunnel becomes completely lubricated from your movements, you can thrust faster.
- To prevent ejaculate from spilling out, squeeze the end of the pocket pussy tunnel closed with your hand.
- Rinse and clean well. Full cleaning & storage instructions are below.
How to Use a Pocket Pussy - Video Demonstration
Most guys are curious what a pocket pussy feels like. In this video demo, you can clearly see that these male sex toys are so stretchy, they can double and sometimes triple their resting size. You'll often see "one size fits most" and this essentially means that no matter how short or long your penis is, the pocket pussy toy you have will stretch to fit.
Q. What are the Different Types of Pocket Pussy & Ass?
A. As you can imagine, most types of adult toys for men work very similarly to one another. How to Use a Pocket Pussy? Simple. Insert your penis, then stroke or thrust until you orgasm. Some pocket vaginas vibrate, or can be inserted into sleeves or other devices to ‘automate’ the process a bit.
In addition to this, the term "pocket pussy" can be a bit deceptive. Many of them are designed to simulate vaginal inner course. You can also purchase a pocket ass that gives you oral and anal sex experiences.
- Life size pocket pussy – Indulge in the ultimate sexual fantasy with impressive full body pocket pussy and life like vagina visuals.
- Small pocket pussy – The mini pocket pussy is the best male masturbator. Looks good, feels real and the tiny size is easy to store.
- Pocket pussy with ass – Never have to choose between front door or back door, the pocket vagina with butt has both with dual entry holes.
- Ass pocket pussy – The pocket asshole features an ass with puckered anal pocket pussy detail and tightly ribbed canal just like real anal sex.
- Vibrating pocket pussy – The vibrating pussy has a separate bullet vibrator to add stimulation and increase sexual pleasure during masturbation.
As you begin shopping for your pocket pussy, you’ll notice you have lots of options. Fleshlights are long tubes with textured insides that you can insert into a sleeve. Tenga eggs provide you with a discreet and sanitary way to masturbate. There are pocket vaginas designed to resemble the anatomy of various porn stars. Some pocket strokers are closed systems, and others are open at the end.
Can a pocket pussy actually fit in your pocket? Probably not. Other than the very small ‘ring’ style masturbators, most adult toys for guys are about the size of a dildo or vibrator. Still, for this guide we are referring to reasonably small and discreet masturbators, not larger items such as torsos.
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Q. Will it fit my (insert number here) inch long penis?
A. They are made to fit any size. The silicone skin stretches, so when you penetrate the hole, it expands to surround your erection with the same feel regardless if your dick is thin or wide, short or long, big or small. Using a pocket pussy is universal for all men.
On that note however, the smaller hand held toys are less sturdy so if your erection is thicker than average, avoid the cheap styles since the silicone isn't as padded and can tear more easily. Choose one of the full size or moderate priced toys instead. You get what you pay for and the higher quality pocket pussies are thicker, sturdier and much more durable.
Q. Will my dick head poke out of the open end?
A. When you read the product descriptions, we list the insertable length (the length of the penetrable tunnel). Typically, you'll read measurements such as “5 inches insertable”.
Now if you have a 6 inch dick, the question arises if you'll be popping 1 inch out of the open end. Most often, you will not pop out that extra inch. Why not? As you thrust into the pussy toy, the material stretches outward in your hand so essentially your movement is elongating the tunnel.
Q. What does sex with a realistic pocket pussy feel like?
A. You'll encounter either a ribbed, bumpy or smooth ride inside. The smooth tunnels have a seamless glide, the ribbed tunnels have plenty of noticeable texture and bumpy tunnels tend to feel the most lifelike. The pornstar pocket pussy is made to feel like vaginal and/or anal sex with a woman.
The vibrating masturbators offer a slight buzz, it's fairly muted because the skin absorbs the waves, so the sensation is subtle and indirect. Some have multi-function motors and pulsate which enhances pleasure.
Inside a woman's vagina or ass, there are bumps and grooves along the canal. The high end life sized ultra realistic pocket pussies have an irregular soft texture that perfectly imitates the feel of penetrating through a real vagina. If you ask how to use a pocket pussy in hopes of having one that feels exactly like a real vagina, choose the larger models as they better replicate her size.
On a full size realistic masturbator with both vaginal and anal entry holes, the anus is typically tighter and the vagina looser which also imitates the contrast between vaginal and anal sex. The highest quality most realistic feeling full size vagina masturbators have differing textures in each tunnel to better imitate sex with a woman.
Some palm sized or small strokers have a closed end which creates a soft sucking sensation on the head of your penis while you thrust. Most pocket pussies are open ended, and you can squeeze the tip during use to simulate a tighter vagina.
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Q. Do you need lube for a pocket pussy?
A. Yes! Without lubrication, the material creates friction with your skin as you thrust. It might feel nice to have this stronger more direct feel, but it's tough on the material and causes it to overstretch and possibly tear.
Always use sex toy lubricant. You don't need much, just a few drops of lube mixed with a few drops of water will do the trick. Of course if you prefer your sex sloppy and wet, pour on the lube liberally, that's okay too!
Q. Can I cum inside the toy? How to clean a pocket pussy?
A. Yes you can ejaculate inside a male masturbator. Most men do. (They are technically classified as masturbators, so you might as well finish off!) It adds more realism and completes the sexual experience.
They're easy to clean: Flush soapy water through the tunnel, or rinse with water and spray with antibacterial sex toy cleaner and rinse well. The antibacterial toy cleaner is less harsh than soap so it won't degrade the material as quickly.
It's especially important to clean the true life sized pocket pussy toys with with sex toy cleaner because the high end soft materials are more delicate than cheap hard rubber. Make sure to clean the ass and vagina because even if you don't use both holes, lube and cum can still seep inside the other entry hole.
If you're not going to use it for a few months, sprinkle talcum powder on the surface. This will act as a barrier, hold in moisture, keep it stretchy, retain the softness and prevent the material from drying out and/or tearing during use.
If you use it regularly, there's no need to apply the power. The powder should be rinsed off before use otherwise it will leave a “cakey” residue on the surface when it gets wet, this is especially noticeable on a black pocket pussy.
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Q. How does a realistic pocket pussy vibrate?
A. If you like more stimulation on your erection, buy one of the vibrating pocket pussies for sale. This device comes with a separate vibrating motor typically in the form of a bullet or egg vibrator.
There are 2 common placements for the vibrator:
- The vibrator tucks in the open end of the tunnel (in the exit hole). When you thrust into the toy, you'll feel the vibration waves on the tip of your dick.
- Some models have a pouch located on the underside of the pussy, usually near the anus. Slide the vibrator into this hole. When the motor is on, you'll feel vibration across the base of your shaft.
Q. What Are The Benefits of Owning one?
A. Why would someone use a pocket pussy? Isn’t it easier just to use your hand, or maybe have more sex with your partner? What is a pocket pussy? The quick & dirty answer is here.
We think masturbation the old-fashioned way is great. Sex with a partner is wonderful too, if that’s an option for you. Still, we believe that most men could benefit from owning at least one pocket masturbator. Here are just a few reasons why:
- The fantasy factor is real. Let’s face it. When you use your hand, you’re never unaware that you are getting yourself off. When you use an object, like a pocket pussy, it’s easier to immerse yourself in a fantasy.
- You can try out different textures and sensations. Pocket strokers are available in a variety of depths, textures, and can simulate different levels of friction and intensity. These can simulate different types of sex, or provide you with a new experience entirely.
- Pocket pussies are discrete and portable. Throw yours in a drawer, take it in your suitcase, or keep it in a box under your bed.
- A male sex stroker can be a great, stamina training tool. If you have trouble finishing too soon, you can use a mens sex toy stroker to practice holding off orgasm.
- Pocket masturbators are reasonably priced. For less than 100 dollars, you can get a great pussy.
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What Does a Pocket Pussy Look Like?
It's self explanatory that a pocket pussy will look like a vagina, but flip it around and take a look at the other side and you'll see a couple of different setups. First of all, there is the style with a flat "face" with a long and floppy tunnel attached to the back. The tunnel is soft and floppy so that every man can hold it as tight as her wants - this way he can customize his pleasure by squeezing a good grip, or letting it loose and light.
The second way a pocket pussy looks is a single piece rectangular unit. This is a hand held device with a large flat base. It is possible to set it on a table and sue this style hands free. Some even have a suction cup on the bottom for truly hands free sex. Bigger will always feel more lifelike, but not necessarily look lifelike as even some of the smaller styles look extremely realistic.
Selecting Your Pocket Pussy
How do you know which pocket pussy is best for you? First, keep in mind that you can certainly buy more than one. In fact, if you choose a fleshlight or similar masturbator, you can purchase different inserts that are designed to fit in the same sleeve.
Before you make your purchase, here are some other things to consider:
Pocket Pussy Sizing is Important
There are two things to consider when it comes to the size of your pocket vagina. The first is the size of your penis. As you shop for your new pocket vagina, you’ll notice that most will have a maximum ‘accomodation’ size. Measure yourself carefully so that you can pick the one that works for you. Don’t worry big guys, there are plenty of choices out there for you.
What you don’t want to do is buy a unit that is too small. You won’t get an intensely ‘tight’ experience. It will just be painful. Likewise, don’t exaggerate your size. You won’t have much fun with a pocket vagina that’s too wide or too long. Besides, some guys enjoy that ‘bottoming out’ sensation.
Now, consider the size of the entire unit. If discretion is really important to you, a ring masturbator might be best. If you aren’t concerned with that, and want a really upgraded experience, try a masturbator that comes with an automatic stroker or a vibrating feature.
Choose Your Material
Thanks to modern science, you can buy a pocket pussy that feels exceptionally realistic. They are generally made from materials such as silicone or TPE. Some manufacturers use proprietary names to describe their pussies. What you really want to pay attention to is whether or not the material is body safe. Also, silicone is not porous. TPE is, which means that you must pay a bit more attention to cleanliness.
Important Pocket Pussy Features
Once you know the size you need, and are confident about the material, you can concentrate on the features that make your pocket pussy special. This includes:
- Vibration
- Warming
- Textures: Ridges, Bumps, and Ribs or Soft And Smooth
- Friction: Tight And Intense or Looser
- Manual or Hands Free
- Finishing Options: Open Ended Means Easier to Clean. Closed Means More Effort in Cleaning, But a More Realistic Finish.
- Entrance: Sexual Strokers Can be Made to Resemble a Vaginal, Oral, or Anal Opening. Others don’t look like any of these.
- Aesthetics: You can find pocket pussies in a variety of colors, shapes, and sizes.
Purchasing Your Pocket Pussy
What’s your budget? You can spend as little as ten dollars on a sex toy for men, or more than 200 dollars. While you probably want to avoid the cheapest models, you won’t necessarily get a better experience spending hundreds of dollars. Now you know everything there is to know about How to Use a Pocket Pussy you may feel more comfortable spending extra to get a REALLY good one!
Where and how do you buy a realistic pocket pussy? You can certainly go to your neighborhood sex store to buy a masturbator which is a less phallic sex toy for men that does not look like a vagina or ass. Even though, just being there in person is not very convenient. It certainly isn’t too discrete.
There’s a reason why people buy sex toys online. You can relax and look through your options online. You can read reviews from other customers, and you can place your order without worrying about anyone looking over your shoulder. Once you place your order, your pocket masturbator will come directly to your home. It doesn’t get much easier than that!
If you're the crafty type of guy, you can even get creative and make a homemade pocket pussy with common household items. Of course it wouldn't be nearly as satisfying, but it;s good for a laugh or two and something that most guys have thought about at some point or another! Even if you only want to have sex with a real male sex toy, this blog post is still worth a read anyway. It's just too fun!
Cleaning & Caring For Your Pocket Pussy
TMI here, but if you don’t clean your masturbator correctly, it will quickly become a gross, petri dish of nastiness. You’ll need to stay on top of keeping your unit clean. How you do that depends on your pocket pussy.
If you don’t want to mess with much cleaning, choose one that is open at the end. This way, when you finish you can do so without getting anything inside of the tunnel. If you prefer a closed unit, you’ll have to put in a bit of effort to clean it. Here are some basic instructions:
- If your pocket vagina can be disassembled, take it apart before cleaning. It’s infinitely easier to clean this way. Some masturbators can also be turned inside out for thorough cleaning.
- After you finish, flush out the sex sleeve with soapy water, antibacterial cleanser, or a cleaner made specifically for sex toys. Rinse everything out thoroughly.
- Dry your unit thoroughly inside and out. Some pocket toys come with special racks to help with this.
- If there are electronics involved, take care. Unplug or remove any batteries. Never put any electrical components under water.
- Apply a dusting of corn starch. This keeps things clean and dry before use.
- Inspect for any damage. A good male sex toy is durable, and should last a long time. Still, if you do find damage it’s time to buy a new one. You don’t want to hurt yourself.
- Don’t boil your pocket pussy or put it in the dishwasher, unless the instructions say that you may do this.
Remember that these are very general instructions. Your new sex toy will probably come with cleaning and care instructions. Read and follow these carefully.
Pocket Pussy Tips & Techniques
Now for the main event. How to use a pocket pussy to enjoy the best possible experiences?
First, find a great lube. Water based is key. If there’s a special lube that is sold with your pocket pussy, give that a try. Try out a warming lube for a really pleasurable experience.
Now, enter slowly and carefully. Your unit may seem tight at first, but most are designed to expand to fit you. Ramming it in could be unpleasant.
Once you’re inside, do a bit of experimenting! Alternate between fast and slow movements. Try subtle, circular motions. Go hard and fast if that’s what you enjoy. Hold your hands steady, and thrust with your hips. Try different grip strengths. Do you have a vibrating unit, or an automatic stroker with different settings? Take your masturbation toy for a test drive until you find exactly what you want.
Get your partner in on the action. Have a super-sexy mutual masturbation session. Lay back and close your eyes, and let them surprise you with different techniques. Open ended, pocket pussies make great blow job and hand job enhancers too. Don’t forget to reciprocate!
Finally, use your masturbation toy as a training device. Perfect your thrusting technique so that you can give your partner amazing orgasms. Increase your endurance by masturbating almost to the point of climax, then stopping. Before long, you’ll enjoy those marathon, bedroom sessions you’ve always fantasized about.
Pocket Pussy Storage
If you want your pocket pussy to last, you should probably do better than just throwing it in a drawer. Nobody wants to deal with a dusty masturbator. If yours comes with a case, we strongly recommend you keep that for storage. Otherwise, you can use a box or other storage case for safekeeping. Some people will wrap theirs in a lint free tea towel or other cloth to keep it clean and safe.
If you don’t plan to use your masturbator frequently, check on it every so often. Be on the lookout for cracks, moldy odors, or excess moisture. If you live somewhere that is particularly humid, you might want to store your realistic pocket pussy with some of those silica gel packets. These will absorb moisture in the air.
Pocket Pussy Accessories
The simplest pocket toys are designed for manual stimulation. Others are a bit more advanced, and you can buy accessories to really improve your experience. These include:
- Warmers:
These heat up the inside of your masturbator for a more realistic feeling. If you really enjoy temperature play, you can also experiment with making your sex stroker chilly by sticking it in the fridge. - Mounts:
Attach a mount to your shower wall so that you can thrust your way to orgasm without using your hands. - Sleeves And Cases:
These hold pocket pussy inserts, and can be adjusted for more or less friction. - Strokers:
These are automated units that do all the work for you. Just adjust to the settings you like, and enjoy the sensation as the unit strokes and gyrates for you.
Final Thoughts
Knowing how to use a pocket pussy properly can absolutely enhance your sex life. Use it solo, or share the fun with your partner. Choose the right male sex toy, take good care of it, and experiment with different masturbation techniques. By doing these things, you’ll be able to enjoy intensely pleasurable sensations, and intense orgasms. Enjoy!
