Most Realistic Strap on Dildos for Couples
Last Updated on September 18, 2024
Strap on dildos are a fun way for a couple to expand their sexual pleasures and be more adventurous in the bedroom.
There are several different strap on dildo shapes & sizes with various textures and features, but the realistic strap on penis is the second most common (after pegging strap ons, that is).
Maybe strap on dildos are a necessity because of ED issues that prevent a full erection firm enough for vaginal penetration. Strap ons for men do not always need to be hollow, the unisex harness design is a common sex toy for couples to try since the size and shape of the dildo attachments are better.
Furthermore, the strap on penis with a realistic feeling dildo imitates the sensations of penetrative sex. Strap ons for women include realistic penis dildos too to replicate the amazing stimulation of a mushroom head.
Sure there are other shapes and styles of strap on dildos for sale out there, but in today's review and comparison, I'll talk about specifically the realistic strap on penis dildo for couples who are looking for the most life like feeling experience during strapon sex play together.
Size Matters Strap On Dildo - $69
It is hollow for men to wear, but sturdy enough for women to wear too. Lifelike size & texture complete the realistic strap on sex experience.
Vac-U-Lock Realistic Strap-On - $122
Unparalleled realism with a dual density dildo that connects to the harness with an adapter. Available in two dildo sizes: medium & large.
Benefits of the Realistic Strap on Penis
Why bother shopping for a strap on dildo in the first place? Strap on dildo sex is playful and fun. Even in the most loving and long term marriage, lovemaking becomes repetitive and ordinary.
Couples will visit a sex toy store online or search for information about ways to spice up the sex life, and strapons are one of those extra adventurous types of adult toys a couple can try. The vibrating strap-on enhances sexual pleasure through tingling vibrations either in the strap on harness itself or the dildo shaft.
It's time to re-think sex as a chore, or something we do selflessly just to pleasure our lover. Sex should be playful and fun and an intimate activity we do together. It's okay to laugh and be silly and explore each other's bodies in a youthful, curious way. The orgasms will be unleashed in thrilling fury.
Sure this may sound like an over exaggerated series of terms, but you'll be on cloud nine when you reach a powerful and long lasting orgasm from playing with sex toys and compounded with the thrill of strap on dildo sex. Leave the stuffy and serious reputation aside and grab your stash of couples sex toys and inject some vitality into the bedroom.
Best reasons to try strap on sex:
- Imitates the sensation of penetrative sex
- Possibility of picking a large strap on for fantasy sex with a big dick
- The couple can enjoy a natural sex life despite ED issues
- Adds a new variety of sexual stimulation
- A vibrating strap on provides extra clit or vaginal stimulation
Strap ons go really well with other types of sex toys too such as clit vibrators, bullet vibrators, butt plugs and you can even dabble into bondage a bit or try some nipple clamps or suckers to add a sense of dark and demure erotic fantasy to the atmosphere.
How to Pick a Realistic Strap On Harness
Not every strap on harness will fit every body. Some are strap on harnesses are designed just for women since they have a T-back thong, boxer shorts, panty or bikini style harness with a strap that fits between the legs, sort of like a G string.
Guys will need either a hollow strap on dildo for men or a unisex strapon harness that has nylon or elastic straps that wrap around the waist and thighs leaving space between the legs for this cock and balls to hang below if he has ED.
Here are some additional pointers on what to look for when shopping online for the best realistic strap on dildo harness that will fit your personal needs and the sexual desires of your partner:
- Wearer's Body Size: Not all harnesses are adjustable, and most with elastic waistbands are rather small. If you need an XL or plus size strap on, be sure to note the “maximum waists size” as listed in each product description.
- Space for Penis & Balls: Men require extra space for the dick and balls without being pinched or chafed during use. Check the shopping filter called “unisex” to select only the styles that men can wear. The straps wrap around the waist & legs leaving open space between the legs.
- Dildo Size Preference: Think about what size of dildo you want. Most dildos are realistically sized, but some are larger to fulfill a fantasy of sex with a well hung lover (which just happens to give your lover and incredible view from above when strapped on to the harness...) All dildo measurements are listed in each individual product description.
- Realistic Dildo Material: The most common realistic sex toy materials you'll find on any good quality strap on penis are liquid silicone dildos, TPR & TPE. Some are made of PVC but they do not feel quite as realistic. In our experience, TPE is the most lifelike feeling dildo material with a skin-like surface. Silicone sex toys are best for those with skin sensitives.
- Extra Vibration Stimulation: Some dildos vibrate, in this case you'll simply tuck the battery controller unit into the strapon belt. Some harnesses have a pocket sewn into the fabric for clitoral vibration should the wearer be female.
5 Best Strap on Dildos that Feel Like a Real Penis:
1. Seducer Silicone Strap on Dildo
Seducer Silicone Strap on Dildo is our newest realistic strap on penis and it's simply amazing! Don't take my word for it however, you only need to wait a few business days after placing your order to find out for yourself.
The straps are some of the longest out there making it the best strap on dildo for plus size women or men. The life like silicone dildo has the perfect shape for pretty much every couple out there and vaginal insertion is effortless and simple.
The suction cup, flat base harness compatible dildo is sized just like a real penis with details and features you'd find in real life. The silicone dildo will last a lifetime and the strap on is double stitched and heavy duty, also sure to last a lifetime.
Specifications:
- Dildo Length: 7 inches
- Diameter: Ranges between 1 3/8 – 1 1/2 inches
- Material: Silicone
- Maximum Waist Size: 63 inches
- Harness Material: Imitation leather & nylon straps
2. American Realistic Strap-On Dildo
American Realistic Strap-On Dildo is soft and bends easily yet retains enough stability for fast, vigorous sex. It is removable from the metal ring too so you can swap it out for something bigger one day after your experience with strap on sex increases.
This strap on harness has the most secure fit of them all featuring an innovative widened back strap for the best hip support, no chafing or strap marks will be left on your body once you're done. The veined penis attachment has a life like size with a smooth and perky mushroom head.
Specifications:
- Dildo Length: 7 inches
- Diameter: Ranges between 1 3/8 – 1 1/2 inches
- Material: PVC
- Maximum Waist Size: 66 inches
- Harness Material: Soft vinyl rubber, nylon straps
3. Maxx Hollow Realistic Strap On Penis
Maxx Hollow Realistic Strap On Penis is a fresh new addition to our sex toy store with the nicest looking and stance on any hollow strap on for men. The elastic waistband is not adjustable, so please note the measurements and compare it to your body.
The silicone strap on penis perfect for men with ED, but it's not just restricted to guys, everyone can enjoy the premium and well designed features that are sure to increase your sexual pleasure during your fantasy strap on play sessions.
Specifications:
- Exterior Length: 7 inches
- Exterior Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/2 – 1 5/8 inches
- Maximum Waist Size: 50 inches
- Material: Silicone dildo, elastic harness
- Color Options: Vanilla (White), Caramel (Brown)
4. Natural 7 Inch Strap on Dildo
Natural 7 Inch Strap on Dildo is the best strap on dildo kit for beginners and a top suggestion for couples shopping for a realistically sized penis strap on at a cheap price. The harness material is thick and sturdy and the removable O ring can accommodate other sex toys of a similar size.
The rubbery feeling cock is sized just like a real life erect penis and literally littered with veins, creases and dick dimples for maximum sexual stimulation and some of the finest texture you'll find on any strap on dick. Make sure to use plenty of warming water based lube with this one.
Specifications:
- Total Length: 7 inches
- Insertable Length: 5 inches
- Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/4 – 1 1/2 inches
- Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
- Maximum Waist Size: 60 inches
- Harness Material: Imitation leather, neoprene, nylon straps
5. Latin Strap On Penis
Skinsations Latin Strap On Penis includes an 8 inch realistic feeling penis for couples who are looking for the most realistic strap on penis for maximum comfort. There is a spine inside the dick shaft, but it won't hold its shape. It's there just for added support since the skin surface is so gentle and soft.
This strap on sex toy can be used for prostate stimulation and anal play, but mostly it's a sex toy for older couples who have ED but want a tame and gentle soft penis for partnered sex. Squeeze the penis shaft and you'll notice that it feels exactly like your favorite real skin dildo!
Specifications:
- Dildo Length: 8 inches
- Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/4 – 1 3/8 inches
- Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
- Maximum Waist Size: 52 inches
- Harness Material: Polyester, nylon straps
Using Your Strap On for the First Time
Ever wonder how to put on a strap on? It's not really that complicated, but I have a few Sexpert tips to help it fit better assuring your first time experience is enjoyable.
After all, I want you to love it so much you'll be coming back to shop for adult toys online again in the future! All joking aside, here are the steps to fit the strap on dildo to your body:
- If the O ring is not already attached with the metal snaps to the front of the harness, snap it in place first.
- Slide the dildo through the O ring so the flared base rests against the harness fabric.
- Feed the straps through the sliders, if they are not already in place. The typical adjustable strap on will have 4 slides: 2 at the hosp and 2 around the thighs.
- Step into the strapon and pull it up like you're putting on underwear.
- Hold the dildo in the place you'd like it to be (often over the pubic bone) to position it.
- Pull the waist straps to tighten, then repeat with the thigh straps.
- Apply warming and/or water based lube to the dildo and to your partner's vagina (or around the anus if being used for anal play).
- Enjoy sex and sample a variety of sexual positions as you go. Experiment and enjoy!
After you're done, it's important to clean the dildo with sex toy cleaner spray or antibacterial soap. Rinse off all of the lube, especially if you've decided to use silicone based lube which is not water soluble. Silicone lube needs a good soapy lather to clean the bond.
Make sure both the strap on and the dildo are pat completely dry and do not store them wet. The body harness can be hand washed, and it is recommended to do so after every use, especially thong, boxer or bikini style harnesses that fit between the legs.
