Short Thick Dildos vs. Long Large Dildos

Extra thick dildos are the ultimate wild & kinky fantasy sex toy for women. If you love to take a thick dildo with a large girth to stretch you wide, you're in the right place.

The Adult Toy Shop's selection of short thick dildos for sale will truly blow your mind, but more on that later. First, let's compare the similarities and differences between these two types of large dildos and overview their benefits for your sexual pleasure in fetish solo dildo play or fetish foreplay with your partner.

Many customers visit our online sex toy shop to awe at the selection huge dildos for sale. We sure do have some impressive huge sex toys! It's natural to be attracted to the big and wide dildo first simply because it has a more handsome stance, and obviously looks bigger from head to balls.

The truth is that both types of big dildos are different, they bring home a unique experience for each one. Here's some Sexpert advice on how to choose the best thick dildo for your personal sexual preferences:

Benefits of a Short Thick Dildo:

1. Regardless of girth, a short fat dildo is never as heavy as a big fat dildo so it's easier to handle and maneuver by yourself when playing solo.
2. If the realistic dildo has balls and you insert the entire shaft, the balls slapping against your thighs & butt during thrusting motions enhances sexual pleasure.
3. Less material equates to lower production cost, so for example, a 7 - 8 inch silicone dildo will be substantially cheaper than a 10 - 12 inch silicone dildo.
4. If the dildo is made of realistic feeling skin (soft TPE & TPE materials) the short thick dildo will be easier to use since it won't bend during initial vaginal insertion.
5. If the dildo has a suction cup, it has a better chance of staying mounted to a wall or strap on harness. Anything longer than 10 inches will usually fall over (thank gravity for that!)

Benefits of a Long Large Dildo:

1. During couples dildo play, the visuals of being penetrated by a long large dildo is a highly erotic sight for your partner (and perfect for your private home movies!)
2. You'll likely need to hold the shaft with two hands, so the experience is similar to playing with a double dildo – adding a huge increase of kink & fetish factor.
3. The heavy weight of a sex toy 10 inches and up inside the vagina feels highly erotic. It's actually one of the reasons that big glass dildos are so popular.
4. A sturdy or firm rubber dildo will be a hardcore ramming intense sexual treat to overwhelm the senses. Just make sure to use lots of lube for a better (and safer) experience.
5. A big vibrating dildo will be more quiet simply because the extra padding on the shaft mutes sound waves originating from the vibrator motor inside.

3 Sexpert Tips for Pleasure with a Thick Dildo

Super thick dildos are serious business and there are some important safety considerations you should know before going all in with these massive sex toys for women.

1. Lubricant is a Must!

Always use lube! If you use a large dildo dry (or sparsely lubricated), it can be painful or uncomfortable because you'll feel the pinch of pulled pubic hairs and/or possibly tear the labia.

You'll need a generous dose of either water-based lube or silicone-based lube. Personally, my Sexpert advice is to purchase water-based lube because silicone can stain your bed sheets and tends to be messier, especially if the wide dildo shaft touches your legs during insertion.

Silicone lube doesn't evaporate so you'll have annoyingly slippery body parts during dildo play. Water based lube is simply easier to use and just as effective. If it evaporates use some saliva or water to re-generate its viscosity.

2. Assure Comfortable Vaginal Insertion

Thoroughly lubricate your labia. Slather lube all over the clit and even the perineum. The point is to prevent friction anywhere between your skin and a giant dildo.

Spread your lips with one hand while lining up the dildo head for penetration with your other hand. This is where your lover comes in handy (literally!) as they have a front-row seat and closeup view to help insert the dildo comfortably.

Lube up the dildo head and several inches down the penis shaft too. Twirling both hands over the shaft (similar to the motion of a hand-job) will assure even distribution cross the wide shaft.

As always, make sure to clean and wash your dildo properly with warm water and antibacterial soap or sex toy cleaner spray after every use to prevent bacteria growth.

3. Familiarize Yourself with Big Dildo Sizes

There's been several instances of customers who want to try a big dildo only to find they're unable to take it all in. No two extra large dildos are identical, and we list measurements of every dildo size on our sex toy website. Grab a tape measure to visualize how wide the dildo actually is before ordering.

There is a significant difference between 1.5 inch and 2 inch wide dildos. If you're a first timer, I suggest starting out with a 1.5 or 1.75 inch wide dildo. Save the 2 or 3 inch thick dildo for after you've advanced experience levels.

Mayla's Top Thick Dildo Picks

Okay so now that you know everything there is to know about choosing and using a huge thick dildo, here's a few of my favorite top dildos that I'm sure you'll enjoy. All body-safe and ready for steamy self-love and hot sex with yourself!

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