Thigh Strap On: The Kink Factor You've Been Looking For

Last Updated on June 17, 2024

Strap on sex is the perfect way for ordinary couples to add fun and adventure to the sex life. A little bit of a kink goes a long way!

Strap on sex toys increase pleasure by adding new textures and sizes to penetrative sex. Dildo harnesses also encourage the duo to role play and experiment with various sexual positions to “spice it up” so to speak, and make intimacy more exciting.

If you already own a strap on dildo harness and are shopping for new sex toys to try something different today, you're about to be inspired with something super exciting, extra erotic and fantastically sexy: The thigh strap on harness!

I'll offer a few tips and advice on getting maximum pleasure by using a thigh harness with your lover and offer a few reasons why you'll be eager to give it a try the next time you're feeling a bit on the frisky side.

There is either a hole cut in the fabric, or a rubber or metal O ring attached by straps that supports a dildo. One partner straps the harness around the thigh while the other bounces on their leg as the dildo of choice penetrates their vagina.

The thigh strap on looks different compared to a regular strapon. The standard body strap on harness will have an elastic waistband or nylon straps that adjust around the waist, hips and thighs. The leg strap on is a single piece unit that fits around the thigh only, so it has a more basic visual appearance.

How to Use a Thigh Strap On

You don't need to be into BDSM or have a collection of bondage toys or restraints to enjoy the pleasures of riding a thigh strap on dildo. It is an interactive adult toy for everybody - all genders and sexual orientations can enjoy.

Our thigh strap on for sale does not include a dildo, so your first step is to choose a harness compatible dildo attachment to go with it. The interior diameter of the hole is 1.75 inches across from side to side, so any dildo with a girth less than this will fit through the hole.

1. Push the dildo through the opening on the harness.
2. Position the harness on your thigh with the dildo facing forwards.
3. Pull the straps around the back of your leg and attach the hook and loops to the fabric.
4. Lube up the dildo with your favorite sexual lubricant.
5. Sit on the bed or a chair and let your partner bounce up & down in front of you and enjoy the view!

To clean your thigh strap on, hand wash only. If you put it in your washing machine, the Velcro straps will collect lint and hair reduce it's ability to stick to the fabric. Clean the dildo according to the steps shown in the aforementioned guide.

Choosing the Best Dildo for a Thigh Harness

Think about how you will be using the strap on. Which sexual position is your favorite? Do you enjoy the basic “sit on a chair and squat on my lap” position? Then a curved G Spot dildo will be an excellent choice. Lesbian partners and heterosexual lovers both benefit from this innovative sex toy for couples.

She enjoys G Spot stimulation while the thigh strap on wearer gets a front row seat to the orgasmic face. You'll be up close to the pleasure, share the orgasm, see the pleasure from the intense sensations. Enjoy the most erotic lap dance of your life!

You can even pick a vibrator toy with a flat base to fit inside the opening. The benefit of a vibrating dildo is that you have access to vibrating stimulation, but if you don't want to activate the motor, just leave it off! At least you have the option to add extra sensations with a vibrator sex toy if you want to.

Here are a few tips on picking the best strap on dildo for your harness:

• Measure the opening on the thigh harness, the dildo girth must be less than the opening of the hole.
• Pick a sex toy with a flat base so it will sit flush with your leg.
• A suction cup dildo is an excellent choice, the flared circular base fits very snugly in the opening.
• Make sure the sex toy you select isn't too soft, “real feel” materials can bend under pressure as your partner bounces up and down on your leg.

Best Thigh Strap on Harness Review

Sportsheets Thigh Strap On is an impressive piece of sex furniture. It is very heavy duty yet super comfortable. You'll notice the high quality construction immediately after you open your package for the first time. The Sportsheets brand Neoprene harness attaches around the limb with two wide hook and loop straps.

The entire harness connects to the hook and loop allowing the user to completely customize the fit. You can position this high on your leg, or even low on the calf if you want. It is fully adjustable to fit any shape of leg allowing to wearer to customize the action to their specific sexual desires. The maximum leg size this will fit is a 14 inch diameter thigh.

The round hole where you mount a dildo has a circular plastic barrier double stitched within the Neoprene to hold the dildo in place preventing it from moving around while your partner is pumping away in the throes of ecstasy. This will rival even the best couples sex toys for adventurous lovers.

The reinforced opening is 1 1/2 inches wide, but can stretch slightly. (Please note the box states the opening is 1 1/4 inches but this is incorrect). You can slide any dildo with a diameter that is 1 3/4 inches and less through the hole to mount it for your lover to ride. If the dildo has a base wider than 1 3/4 inches, it won't fit through the hole.

Pros:

• Simple design is easy to use.
• Double hook and loop straps stay firmly connected to the fabric.
• Soft fabric allows the wearer to walk freely while the harness it around the leg.
• Reinforced dildo holder opening withstands intense force and pressure.
• Extra high on the kink factor scale, rivaling the squirting strap on.

Cons:

• Maximum thigh size is 14 inches, may not fit XXL bodies.
• The opening can stretch to 1.75 inches wide, so it can't accommodate very large dildos.
• Dildo is not included, so you'll have to shop for one separately.
• Doesn't look overly sexy, sort of a “bland” appearance.