What is a Blowjob Simulator and What Does it Feel Like?
Every guy enjoys a good blowjob. The tight, wet, warm mouth delivers incredible sexual pleasure – but we don't need to tell you that, you already know hence your curiosity about blowjob simulators. Today we'll explore how they work and list the most essential features to look for when shopping for a good one.
Truth be told there are many weird mouth masturbators out there that claim to simulate a blowjob but some sensations are too rough and hurt the dick. They can feel too aggressive or may not have enough suction to feel like oral so they are nothing more than an ordinary male stroker sleeve.
So then we're left asking if blowjob toys are really worth it? Do they even work as intended? How do you find one that actually feels like a BJ?
What Exactly is a Blowjob Simulator?
A blowjob simulator is a male masturbator designed to imitate the feel or oral sex. They can have numerous features such as vacuum suction, vibration, rotation or even look like a realistic mouth complete with a nose, lips and tongue.
Does it Feel Like Oral Sex?
Yes and no. It depends on the features (which we'll cover in detail below).
A realistic mouth masturbator sleeve like the Shower Stroker BJ Toy looks like a mouth and even has realistic feeling skin but since there is no suction or vibration (think hummer) then it's not as realistic feeling as say, the Vibrating Blowjob Sucker which has suction capability to feel like an enthusiastic woman sucking you off, but it doesn't LOOK like real mouth.
Essentially, one type looks real, the other type feels real so each blowjob toy will feel drastically different. Mind you, all our toys feel good – if we encounter one that feels too scratchy (which we have seen), then we discontinue it, so any blowjob simulator purchased from The Adult Toy Shop has been through rigorous testing to make sure it feels good and brings you pleasure and a good orgasm for that grand finale.

Important Features for the Most Realistic Experience
If you want to experience simulated oral sex or sucking deepthroat, select a toy with one (or more) of the following features:
- Closed ended – A sleeve with a closed end like the Head Honcho will slowly build up suction as you stroke. The naturally occurring vacuum suction provides the lifelike feel of a sucking BJ.
- Vibration – Vibrating blowjob toys add that extra touch of stimulation, especially when it comes to re-creating a hummer, one of a ladies finest BJ tips to really get you off.
- Textured pleasure tunnel – To feel like a woman's throat, the toy should have some type of texture inside the tunnel, preferably a ribbed or bumpy surface.
- Smooth lips – There should be big succulent lips at the entry, the Deep Throat Stroker has a smooth mouth to swallow you whole. A wide smooth opening contrasts the textured tunnel for realistic oral play.
- Automatic suction – This is only possible provided the back of the toy is closed on the end, but some motorized automatic blowjob machines have a motor inside that creates mild suction on the tip of your cock.
- Has a tongue – A tongue sticking out will lick your balls during deep oral – this may seem insignificant compared to other features previously mentioned, but the ball-licking of the Deep Throat Simulator feels stunningly lifelike.
- Soft material – Silicone, TPR and TPE materials are the softest and therefore most comfortable. They are body-safe too with many manufacturers now making non-porous TPE materials for better hygiene.
Automatic Machines vs. Handheld Strokers
There is a massive price difference between a fully automated blowjob machine and a simple handheld BJ stroker toy. Is it really worth the difference in cost? Which is the best blow job toy?
First let's compare these male sex toys with womens vibrators, which most people are more familiar with anyway. Complicated & advanced features of a dual motor rabbit vibrator will make her cum in record time, but the simple stick-straight plastic vibrator will make her cum too, just not as fast.
Same thing here, the Autoblow AI blowjob simulator will make you cum quicker, but the basic mouth masturbator feels really good too. If you're a budget-minded type of guy, there really is no need to splurge on a super extravagant toy, the cheap dick sucking toy will do the trick too, and as a bonus, it's waterproof so you can use it in the shower.
In conclusion, the best toy is not always the most expensive toy, there is a warranted spot in any man's masturbator kit for items of all price points since they all provide different experiences.
Our Top Recommendations to Try
Here we present two of our very favorite BJ simulators for your consideration. Accurately representing the contrasts within this category, the products selected are complete opposites: One is for use during partnered play, the other is for solo masturbation:

Goin' Down Blowjob Helper
Goin' Down Blowjob Helper is our best selling blow job sex toy. It's designed for partnered play and even though it's really simple and discreet, the ribbed interior texture feels amazing – much better than your partners knuckles or fingers jerking you off to make any ordinary blow job just a little more exciting. Extra cheap price tag makes it an easy purchase for first timers looking for accessories to increase pleasure during foreplay and oral play.
Key Features:
- Designed for your partner to use on you
- A fun way to spice up the sex life
- Silky smooth material with ribbed texture
- Extra stretchy to fit any size penis
Specifications:
Total Length | 1 3/4 inches |
Diameter | 1 3/4 inches |
Material | TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer |
Latex & Phtalates Free | Yes |

Cyclone Blowjob Simulator
Cyclone Blowjob Simulator has spinning rotation in numerous alternating patterns to provide a cornucopia of stimulation to your cock. Although it does not have suction, it has wide open lips that feel great should you choose to stroke it like a masturbator. You can also insert your cock fully and let the vibration on the tip of your dick take you to heaven.
Key Features:
- Squishy cup is lined with raised dots of various sizes
- Fully automated with independently controlled rotation & vibration
- Self contained masturbator is easy to clean with soap & water
- Vibrator has 3 speeds & 5 pulsating and throbbing modes
- USB rechargeable motor produces more power than alkaline batteries
Specifications:
Total Length | 9 inches |
Insertable Length | 3 1/2 inches |
Diameter | 2 1/2 inches |
Material | TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer |
Batteries | None, rechargeable with USB cable (included) |
Waterproof: | “Splashproof,” but do not use it in the shower |
What Else Do I Need to Know?
The most important piece of advice is to always use lube. Using any type of male masturbator dry not only hurts due to friction between your dick and the material, but it also stresses the material which can cause tears and rips in the surface. Even the tiniest tear will spread and basically ruin it.
Water based lube is advisable because if the sleeve is made of silicone, then silicone lube will melt with the surface disfiguring it over time. If there is no silicone in the toy - it if is made of TPR or TPE then go ahead and use hybrid or silicone lube.
Hybrid lube is a nice choice since it's easier to wash off but does not to evaporate or absorb into the skin as quickly as water based lube does. If you find the lube drying out before you're done, simply re-activate it with a few drops of water or saliva.